Of course, my kids are both disciplined in other ways - regular timeouts, toys being taken away, no TV time - but when they go in "Mommy timeout," they both come out much happier. I would breathe deeply to help him calm down (even as he squirmed and wiggled), give him tons of kisses, and not let him get down for a minute or two because he was in "Mommy timeout." (I'll let you in on a little secret: this was all just a big ruse to get more baby snuggles, OK?)Īs he grew older though, this strategy just. So, when he threw his toy across the room or threw himself on the ground in a fit, I would simply pick him up and hold him tight against my chest for a little break. This Leo child was walking at 10 months old, fiercely independent, and way too cool for me way too early in his little life. It all started when my oldest son was a baby. So far, this is my favorite way to handle conflict and tantrums in my house - and with two toddlers a year and a half apart in age, meltdowns, fights, and screaming tantrums happen hourly.
As opposed to regular timeout, in which they sit in a corner alone for a certain amount of time, "Mommy timeout" is when they have to sit right next to me or on my lap while they sort out their feelings, get a break from the situation, and get some precious cuddle time in at the same time.
Let me explain: "Mommy timeout" is a disciplining tool I use to help give my toddlers a quick reset when they need it. "Mommy, can I get down now?" my 3-year-old sweetly asks as he sits next to me on the couch.
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